Why won't my cat let me touch its butt?
Cats are beloved pets for many, but many people don't understand why cats don't want to be touched. This will be explained in detail from several aspects below.
1. Sensitive areas
A cat's rump and the base of its tail are among its sensitive areas, likely due to the presence of numerous nerves and blood vessels. Touching these areas can make a cat very uneasy and tense. If your cat doesn't like having its rump or tail touched, it's best not to force it. Doing so could actually cause it discomfort and pain, and damage the trust between you. 
2. Territoriality
In the wild, cats are solitary animals with a strong sense of territory, marking their territory with their urine and feces. When kept as pets, cats also exhibit this territorial awareness, treating everything in the house as their domain. Because cats urinate and defecate, touching their genitals can disrupt their sense of territorial security. To avoid violating a cat's territorial instincts, we should avoid touching them.
3. Communication methods
Cats are very special animals, but they also have their own way of communicating. When interacting with other cats, they will touch each other's noses and faces to sense each other's scent and condition. If someone touches them, this is a form of communication that cats find uncomfortable and may cause them to feel stressed or distrustful.
4. Poor experience
In general, cats don't like being touched because it makes them feel uncomfortable and insecure. If you want to build a good relationship with your cat, it's best to avoid touching their sensitive areas. Respecting your cat's feelings and giving them enough freedom and space to experience what they like is the most important thing.